Conscious Couples Therapy

Conscious Couples Program

Finding Deeper Satisfaction and Intimacy as couple while growing more whole as an individual.

Conscious Loving-Relationship is the most direct path to deep wholeness, both for the individual and the the couple!

Are you here because you're relationship is in trouble and lost some of the safety, trust, respect, joy, passion and love it once had? Or,
are you here because you want to make sure you and your partner have a relationship filled with safety, friendship, trust, respect, admiration, joy, passion, and love? The key to both strengthening a fragile relationship AND making a good one the best, is to make the unconscious needs, desires and patterns of your relationship conscious.

What is a conscious-loving relationship? Simply put, a relationship that recognizes that you were put you together for a sacred purpose and that purpose is so that you could both help each other become more whole. Yet so often the opposite seems more true.

Why is this? Answer lies in the unconscious ego based reactive patterns rooted in our past. SOULution: Allowing the love inside the relationship to heal the wounds that are the source of these reactive patterns. Easier said than done.

"We actually hide from the very thing that we most seek, intimacy. In-To-Me-See." --Michael

During early childhood, you learned to bond with your caregivers in ways that felt good to you. This is where you learned many of the bonding patterns that continue in your adult life as the foundation for all of your relationships. No matter how satisfying those early relationships may have been, you also had certain perceived unmet needs. These are the same needs that you seek to get met today particularly in your romantic relationship. Cosmic Joke is, we try to get them from the same energetic match of the people that couldn't meet them in the first place, and unless the relationship becomes conscious of this, they wont be met in your romantic relationship. When you can give your partner what s/he most emotionally needs, s/he heals and becomes more whole and you grow to become more flexible and whole. Not a bad deal! We all get to choose, conscious essence based love or unconscious ego based false love.

To change your relationship, you only need to be aware of these patterns. The problems in relationships arise when we unconsciously attempt to get our needs met in a negative, self-destructive ways. Whatever is not healed in your relationship now will repeat, in your current relationship and/or a future one. The time for healing is now.

"Michael Casteel’s Conscious Couples program, also called Imago work, has had a profound and lasting impact on our relationship. We always considered ourselves a happily married couple, but there were issues with power struggles. We realized that better communication could improve our relationship and we knew we needed to address old emotional wounds from our childhoods. Michael was very skilled and compassionate in guiding us as we unwound these old patterns. We would highly recommend this process to all couples who are committed to a vibrant, compassionate, and lasting relationship. " -Bob and Janice Lightsey

A conscious relationship with our most intimate partner can be one of the most profound spiritual paths available to us. Romantic relationships are dramatic teachers of wholeness, showing us where we need to heal. Problems with your intimate partner can be an opportunity to grow both personally and as a couple.

"Whatever is not healed in your relationship now will repeat, in your current relationship and/ or a future one. The time for healing is now." -Michael

This intimate journey helps you discover the shared wound and shared purpose that brought you together. Understanding this leads to a sacred bond that includes individual desires in service to a purpose that is passionately embraced by both partners.

Have deeper intimacy
Experience more satisfaction
Expand the love you feel for each other
Create a new life purpose for your relationship
Learn the communication skills that replace arguments
Achieve better understanding
Gain the support you have always wanted in your partner
Have more of your individual needs met
Have more fun and find more joy in being together "Our soul seeks real love. Our ego often creates false love. False love is ego based and concerned with protecting our vulnerability and getting what we think we want. Real love is essence based and desires to fully see the soul of their beloved and takes the risk of being fully seen by this beloved, in all its vulnerable glory." -Michael

If you are in a good relationship, yet would like to deepen your individual wholeness as well as have even more connection, excitement and meaning with your partner, this is an ideal path to accomplish this.

If you are in a relationship that is experiencing some distress, the challenge is to stay with your current partner and face yourself until only love is present. Then, choose your future to either stay together and nurture the newfound intimacy or move on to another relationship. Either way you will be bringing a healthy and whole self to this relationship, with more self-acceptance.

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