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1. I've been |
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romantic and imaginative. |
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pragmatic and
down to earth. |
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2. I have tended to |
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take on confrontations. |
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avoid confrontations. |
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3. I have typically been |
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diplomatic, charming, and ambitious. |
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direct, formal,
and idealistic. |
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4. I have tended to be |
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focused and intense. |
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spontaneous and
fun-loving. |
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5. I have been a |
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hospitable person and have enjoyed welcoming new friends into
my life. |
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private person
and have not mixed much with others. |
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6. Generally, it's been |
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easy to "get a rise" out of me. |
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difficult to "get
a rise" out of me. |
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7. I've been more of a |
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"street-smart" survivor. |
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"high-minded"
idealist. |
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8. I have |
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needed to show
affection to people. |
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preferred to maintain
a certain distance with people. |
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9. When presented with a new experience, I've usually asked
myself if it would be |
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useful to me. |
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enjoyable. |
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10. I have tended to focus too much on |
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myself. |
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others. |
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11. Others have depended on my |
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insight and knowledge. |
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strength and decisiveness.
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12. I have come across as being too |
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unsure of myself. |
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sure of myself.
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13. I have been more |
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relationship-oriented than goal-oriented. |
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goal-oriented
than relationship-oriented. |
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14. I have |
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not been able
to speak up for myself very well. |
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been outspoken—I've
said what others wished they had the nerve to say. |
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15. It's been difficult for me to |
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stop considering
alternatives and do something definite. |
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take it easy and
be more flexible. |
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16. I have tended to be |
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hesitant and procrastinating. |
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bold and domineering.
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17. My |
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reluctance to
get too involved has gotten me into trouble with people. |
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eagerness to have
people depend on me has gotten me into trouble with them. |
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18. Usually, I have |
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been able to put my feelings aside to get the job done. |
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needed to work
through my feelings before I could act. |
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19. Generally, I have been |
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methodical and cautious. |
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adventurous and
taken risks. |
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20. I have tended to be a |
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supportive, giving person who enjoys the company of others.
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serious, reserved
person who likes discussing issues. |
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21. I've often felt the need to |
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be a "pillar of strength." |
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perform perfectly.
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22. I've typically been interested in |
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asking tough questions
and maintaining my independence. |
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maintaining my
stability and peace of mind. |
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23. I've been too |
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hard-nosed and skeptical. |
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soft-hearted and
sentimental. |
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24. I've often worried that |
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I'm missing out on something better. |
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if I let down
my guard, someone will take advantage of me. |
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25. My habit of |
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being "stand-offish" has annoyed people. |
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telling people
what to do has annoyed people. |
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26. Usually, when troubles have gotten to me, I have |
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been able to "tune
them out." |
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treated myself
to something I've enjoyed. |
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27. I have |
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depended upon
my friends and they have known that they can depend on me. |
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not depended on
people; I have done things on my own. |
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28. I have tended to be |
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detached and preoccupied. |
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moody and self-absorbed. |
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29. I have liked to |
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challenge people and "shake them up." |
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comfort people
and calm them down. |
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30. I have generally been an |
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outgoing, sociable person. |
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earnest, self-disciplined
person. |
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31. I've usually |
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been shy about showing my abilities. |
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liked to let people
know what I can do well. |
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Pursuing my personal
interests has been more important to me than having comfort
and security. |
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Having comfort
and security has been more important to me than pursuing my
personal interests. |
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33. When I've had conflict with others, I've |
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tended to withdraw. |
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rarely backed
down. |
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34. I have |
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given in too easily
and let others push me around. |
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been too uncompromising
and demanding with others. |
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35. I've been appreciated for my |
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unsinkable spirit
and great sense of humor.
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quiet strength
and exceptional generosity. |
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36. Much of my success has been |
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due to my talent for making a favorable impression. |
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achieved despite
my lack of interest in developing "interpersonal skills." |
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